Tag Archives: Reinvention

What Now? – What to do if you have discovered your spouse is gay and you think you might have to leave.

Let me be very clear. This is not legal advice. If you do feel an impending divorce, get a lawyer, get some cash, and get a friend or family member you can stay with in case you have to leave … Continue reading

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What Now? Credit Cards and Authorized Users

Get Your Own Credit Card in Your Name Getting your own credit card in your name is the best way to improve your credit score. If you are planning to get divorced, and if you don’t have your own card … Continue reading

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What Now? Banking Tips

More About Getting Your Own Bank Account and Following the Money Get your own bank account and your own online profile for your bank. My grandmother told me to do this when I first got married and I did not … Continue reading

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Love Second Time Around

Some of you will never feel what it is like to fall in love for a second time, and for that you should be grateful, because it’s awful.  It is heart wrenching and you can’t trust anyone and you can’t … Continue reading

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Back in Indiana and Back on Track : An Update on my Weight, My Career, and My New Beau….. Because I Know You are Dying to Know.

A lot of things have changed for the better since coming “home.”   Here are the highlights. My Weight I haven’t been writing about dieting lately because it just wasn’t my focus. I was working on my career, moving cross country, … Continue reading

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What I’ve Learned in my Thirties

Even as I was living it, I knew that I would look back at my thirties and know that this would be the most interesting, fun, difficult, and freeing time of my life. So often a woman in her twenties, … Continue reading

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Coming Home

Thomas Wolfe famously said what we always have known, but have to relearn over and over, “You can’t go home.” I know that line. I know it to be true, but I did it anyway. Florida was a trip. At … Continue reading

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The Thin Myth: The Early Years

The Thin Myth is the idea I dreamed up that if only I were thinner, than the world would be my oyster, as long as I chose grilled fish instead.  The “thin myth” started very young.  As I stated before, … Continue reading

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“Unwitting Ambassador” or “Fitness for Fat People”

(This is an older post) As part of a fitness incentive at work, every Wednesday during the lunch hour through January, there is a Zumba class offered in one of the large conference room.  Despite of or because of my … Continue reading

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How Did I End Up in Florida?

***This is an older post from 2010, but it explains a lot of where I was nearly two and a half years ago and bears to be reposted to the revamped site. How Did I End Up in Florida? If … Continue reading

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