Category Archives: Reinvention
What Now? – What to do if you have discovered your spouse is gay and you think you might have to leave.
Let me be very clear. This is not legal advice. If you do feel an impending divorce, get a lawyer, get some cash, and get a friend or family member you can stay with in case you have to leave … Continue reading
Get Your Own Credit Card in Your Name Getting your own credit card in your name is the best way to improve your credit score. If you are planning to get divorced, and if you don’t have your own card … Continue reading
More About Getting Your Own Bank Account and Following the Money Get your own bank account and your own online profile for your bank. My grandmother told me to do this when I first got married and I did not … Continue reading
Some of you will never feel what it is like to fall in love for a second time, and for that you should be grateful, because it’s awful. It is heart wrenching and you can’t trust anyone and you can’t … Continue reading
Back in Indiana and Back on Track : An Update on my Weight, My Career, and My New Beau….. Because I Know You are Dying to Know.
A lot of things have changed for the better since coming “home.” Here are the highlights. My Weight I haven’t been writing about dieting lately because it just wasn’t my focus. I was working on my career, moving cross country, … Continue reading
Even as I was living it, I knew that I would look back at my thirties and know that this would be the most interesting, fun, difficult, and freeing time of my life. So often a woman in her twenties, … Continue reading
Thomas Wolfe famously said what we always have known, but have to relearn over and over, “You can’t go home.” I know that line. I know it to be true, but I did it anyway. Florida was a trip. At … Continue reading
The Thin Myth is the idea I dreamed up that if only I were thinner, than the world would be my oyster, as long as I chose grilled fish instead. The “thin myth” started very young. As I stated before, … Continue reading